Facing your challenges to make decisions without fear

Sometimes, when you have to make decisions and do not know what to do, stay in shock. You know that the decision you make to the opportunities that is presented to you can give a twist to your life, and it scares the hell out of.

To help you change that attitude for a benefit you, we present two stories. In them I illustrate situations that could identify you, for, from there, to expose its consequences in a simple way and suggest what you should do to address them.

The story of Yolanda

Yolanda was devoted to her children and the household for the last ten years, and now wants to return to work, but feels insecure because he has been away from the work environment.

It is capable and intelligent, and make your mind sharp and your charismatic personality to get a good job. You have two proposals:

• In the first perform routine functions in a hours long, but has a salary insurance.
• In the second you have a flexible schedule and possibility of growth, but the salary is variable.
• The first option is in your safe zone; it is a work that knows how to perform.
• The second option is a challenge.

Yolanda has to choose: to give a jump up to reach a higher step to professional level, or stay in what you know.

The decision would be easy if the survival Yolanda and their children did not rely on this work.

The story of Maribel

Maribel takes four years with her boyfriend. Is deeply in love with him and he seems the perfect man to form a family. However, since he planned his professional life, his dream was to go to Spain to study a master's degree.

He finished the race and now has to choose: go and fulfill his purpose professional with the risk of losing the man you love or give up on her dream and preserving their relationship.

There are situations in which the decisions you need to make are going to affect the direction of your life. The risks and the benefits they can cause fear and confusion.

Don't know what's going to happen —if fracasarás or you will be successful— you can paralizarte, because you do not know what to decide before the options that are presented to you.

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To take decisions, to face your challenges

In the stories of Maribel and Yolanda had two parts in your interior that were in war:

• One wanted to take off, move forward, and take the risk.
• The other had fear and I wanted to stay in what is known, without leaving the safe zone.

It's like having the devil and angel on each ear, aconsejándote to follow different directions.

To move forward in a coordinated way toward your goals, need to know what you want and perform specific actions in the direction that you want to go.

To leap and shine with all your potential, you need to be in peace.

A greater challenge requires more effort and force of will to overcome the obstacles that present themselves. And it also represents the loss of a “safe place”.

There are No roads “good” or “bad”, it all depends on what you want to live. In the face of the challenges, learn lessons and grow as a person. If you avoid, you don't learn the lesson, and these will be presented again and again, because you have to receive that teaching.

So, the faster you learn the lesson that there is in each challenge, the more easy and happy to be your life.

For this reason, I invite you to face your challenges without fear and to identify what you really want.