Transforms a story of love in a love

Feel heartbreak when the interest that you show by any person is not reciprocal, and then presents a love or a friendship is not reciprocated.

Heartbreak is the lack of affection, love and tenderness; it is a lack of very deep that make you feel alone(o) sad and fear.

Surely, you've experienced unrequited love, any disappointment or rejection of any person that you love. That is heartbreak.

At the start of a relationship, each person begins with the illusion of live happy, stay united, and loving each other. But the reality is that many couples do not find this happiness. What happened to you?

If this has been a constant in your life, we have good news: it is possible to transform your story of love in one of love.

To achieve this, you have to create it in your mind first, and that starts with a vision: to what do you want to reach —your highest goal—.

Visualize what you want to achieve is a potent practice. For example: in the relationships of couple, which encourages them to stay united in the face of difficulties and challenges, it is the vision of forming a happy relationship in which they can thrive and feel good.

Navigate through life without a vision is like going on a boat in a stormy night without a compass.

That's why today I'm going to guide you through an exercise in which you are going to create a vision with three steps that will help you get the love you seek:

Steps to transform a story of heartbreak

1. Write your script in a single line

The first step and is very simple. Take paper and pencil, and tell your story of unrequited love. If you like to write, do it in writing, if you do not, you can record a audio.

If you have multiple stories, features the number one, two, three, etc, All the stories of heartbreak that you've lived.

Cuéntala several times and resúmela, making it smaller each time until you get to a sentence.

I'll give you some examples:

• “There is so much love in the beginning, but then evaporate; it goes away”.
• “Are behind me; they are beautiful; I conquered; but once they do, they are displayed as you truly are”.

The important thing is to find what it is that repeating pattern. Identifies if there is one or several of these situations that are recurring, choose one at a time, focus on the most important and that is your line. This is the first step.

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2. recognize your character

The second step is to recognize your character. What is the role that you play in this script, story or soap opera?what is your character?; what are you doing?, how do you fare?, how does it work?

For example:

• “I am the table”.
• “To me it's got me on”.
• “I am always attentive to the needs of the other and I forgot mine.”
• “I'm always controlling and celando”.
• “I don't appreciate, I don't give my place and I don't put any limit.”

What is your character in this script? Everything will improve if what you are writing.

3. transform your character

The third and last step is to transform your character. If you continue in your old character, you'll keep repeating the stories of disaffection, and that is why it is necessary that you change your character.

You may be wondering: how should I be? It is very simple: look for someone who is like you need to be to create the story of love that you want it to. For example:

• If you do not know to communicate, and that's why you generate stories of disaffection, look around you and look for someone who knows how to communicate.
• If you don't value yourself, look for someone who makes him or herself(or); I do feel that it deserves.

Imagine that person and visualízala. You can receive this feature you have and that you need to, simply because it shares the planet with you and breathe the same air as you.

I know that sounds very simple, but it is. To identify the quality that you need another person, you're looking at and identifying, and that means that you can develop in yourself.

Take a look at the video below for you to make the constellation with me and finish the previous year. You already have it in mind, and now we will move mentally in your mind with the help of the board.

You've done an excellent job. Now you are the character you want in connection with the story of your love.