How to avoid the abuse you or your loved ones and be left in peace

Do you have a sense that they have abused you?, do you want to be able to prevent abuse of you or one of yours?

In the first place, you should be aware that, for someone to be abused(or), there has to be an abuser.

When you're with someone abusive, that person will feel entitled to hurt you; and you, being the victim, you do not feel capable of stopping these attacks and put limits.

All the abuse that you tolerate are repeated; each behavior you tolerate is a message that you're giving the other person that that attitude is good for you.

Therefore, I bring you a family constellation that will help you to finish with these dynamics in your life.

But before, that it is more clear, I will speak to you of these two roles, forces or energies.

1. Role of the abuser

The abuser is the person that feels entitled to. It feels strong, with power and eager to crush the other person. Is the one who commits a crime or who hurts someone else, in their person or their property.

He feels entitled to harm, as if reason or justice were on his side. He feels invincible.

The abuser is always someone that is abusable.

2. Role of the abusable

The abusable feels powerless, as a victim. Is a person who freezes or goes blank, and you can't defend. Feels without address.

When you are in this role, you're really in a situation of risk.

What is worse is that these two forces always go together, because they attract like a magnet; the one who is the abuser, they are attracted to someone who is abusable, and that is abusable attracts an abuser.

Why is this happening? Because, as a person abusable, emanas a vibratory frequency; although it is a small part of you, even though you're at peace, that small part of you, emanating from that vibrational frequency will attract the abuser.

People who are abusive are looking for people who let themselves be abused; therefore, you have to get out of that role —that of the person abusable—.

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What can you do to prevent the abuse of it?

Through a constellation, we're going to prevent abuse of you or one of yours, for you to solve these two forces and are at peace within yourself.

If you are well within you, this is going to leave of manifest outside; if you put it in peace for you, it will also enter in the psyche of those who are part of your family system.

To make the familiar constellation of the video, there will no longer be an abuser, because these two forces will be dissolved. This story will be left in the past.

If you still feel that you need to go further to fix this problem, then there are more deep-rooted than identify.

To do this, I have several resources on my website that you are going to help you, or you can request a private session.